I’m such a sucker. I
I'm such a sucker. I had a great evening for the most part. I ate with Irfan and 6 other pseudo-friends at the Red Onion Grill. We continued on to Stag's Head for Harry and Eric's gig. There were many large groups of people that passed through over the course of the evening... several costume party folks and even a hen party. It was quite entertaining. I drank a lot (as previously stated), but managed to stay coherent enough to know I was being strung along by the not-really-a-date date. I am home safe and sound. I'm getting ready for sleepytime, but I am still disturbed by the deception of it all. Why do the women in my life continually lie to me? Why do the women I know take advantage of the fairer facets of my personality while they continually take me for granted? Why am I never appreciated? This is why I don't date. This is why I fight every day to not become the bitter motherfucker I was 5 years ago. I am so disappointed with the human race... especially the women I've known in my life. What the fuck is wrong with you people?
ah, honey, we’re not all bad, honestly. :-(
I’m curious about what you mean by being strung along, though.
What’s a hen party?
Trish,
hen party = bachelorette party
I guess it’s a more commonly used term outside the States.
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Lisa,
We’re not really a couple, so I guess it shouldn’t matter really… I guess I just meant that I still give her a chance to see me when she’s proven she’s not for me… it leaves me feeling like I’m on a string. Hell, I was so drunk when I wrote that last night that I really don’t know what I was thinking… that was just my best guess. ;-) I can count the dates I’ve had in the last 9 months on 1 hand and they have all ended up in disappointment. It’s disheartening. I know some amazing women, so I know you are corrent… they just aren’t available. I guess I just expect too much from a dating relationship… that makes me “high maintenance” I suppose… eh? lmao
ciao
hmm. could be. I dunno, I’ve never really “dated” per se - I seem to manage to get into relationships without going through all that. I can see how it could be frustrating, though.
(heh, I was surprised to see you say hen party myself. So, did the bride-to-be wear a silly veil and have a big “L” plate on her back? ;-) )
Dating sucks. I was married then divorced - was single for 2.5 years and hated almost every minute of it. It isnt just women. In my case the men were completely psychopaths! One even got arrested at my apartment!! In my case, I found that the secret was not finding the PERFECT person to be with but finding the psychopath I could live with.
Ever thought about the kind of people you choose to date?
I refuse to believe that everyone is bad and that one gender is all nasty. No matter how many bad experiences I’ve had and relationships that ended horribly, I will not be bitter and blame all men. It’s not “the kind of people you choose to date,” but rather having certain expectations regarding people’s behavior in any relationship, not just a dating one. Clayton, I don’t think your expectations are too high to expect common courtesy. We all need to work on exhibiting a little more of that towards each other. “It’s a funny thing about life; if you refuse to accept anything but the best, you very often get it.” --Somerset Maugham
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